Q: What’s wrong with my vagina? A: It wants to be romanced (and so do I, tbh)
It’s that feeling when you’re fumbling around in bed with your Tinder date and the foreign-ness of each other’s bodies leads to rushing as opposed to exploring. It’s the feeling when you have to walk out of your front door in ten minutes but could really, really use with a quickie with yourself. It’s the time when physical stimulation goes from zero to one hundred. Are these sometimes the best sexual encounters ever? Yes. Are they sometimes terrible? Yes.
My body tends to clamp up at “nothing to everything” physical touch. This can translate to dryness, physical pain during intercourse or just general lack of interest or drive.