What’s wrong with my vagina? Episode 5: Performance Anxiety

Q: What’s wrong with my vagina?

A: It feels pressured to perform

We’ve all been there. A countdown to a big lay. An upcoming trip with new bae,  a lover coming home from abroad, a certain someone is in town for one night only- you know the type i’m talking about. It’s a one way ticket to fuck city. While we hear a lot about performance anxiety for people with penises, I also believe people with vaginas experience something similar.

For me, this anxiety can manifest hours before “the big lay”.  Every itch and sensation down there sends me spiraling into thinking something is wrong with my vagina and therefore I won’t be able to blow this person’s